You know it is a secret that needs to be shared when you feel even slightly guilty for not telling them. Not that you have to tell the other person every minute detail about your life, but you should not intentionally keep something major from them. This is something that goes along with keeping communication open-do not keep secrets. I have to remember that I love that he can make me laugh and that he has such a positive outlook on life. My boyfriend is for the most part carefree and funny, but sometimes his jokes start to drive me nuts or I wish he was more organized. Take a step back and remember why you fell in love with this person in the first place. Often we are drawn to someone who is completely opposite to us and after a while we can be tempted to try to change them to be the same as us. In relationships, we need to realize we are unique individuals. ⌄ Scroll down to continue reading article ⌄ 6. If he/she is a grown adult, treat them like one. Think about it though, would you like someone telling you what to do every waking minute? You are not this person’s parent. Both of these scenarios can lead to us wanting to control or comment on every move the other person makes.
Many of us either have control issues or things that the other person does that drive us crazy. Not that you won’t have any fun along the way, but you need to remember it takes a focused effort to be romantic with your partner. It is easy to become complacent and slack on making an effort for romance. Losing the romance in the relationship is one of the key reasons why relationships fail. Learn from my mistakes and triumphs and do not fall into these common relationship mistakes. I am coming at this topic with a five year (and counting) relationship with many highs and lows. So you have gotten past the initial dating stage and are now in a “relationship.” This can be the best or worst part of your life depending on how you proceed.
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